Good behaviour is not about dominance or discipline — it is about clear communication and consistent rewards. Modern, science-based training builds a dog that wants to do the right thing because good things happen when they do. Here is how to make it work.
Why dogs do what they do
Dogs repeat behaviour that is rewarded and drop behaviour that is not. Jumping up gets attention, so it continues. Pulling on the leash gets them where they want to go, so it continues. Once you see behaviour through this lens, training becomes simple: reward what you want, and stop rewarding what you don’t.
The core principle: reward-based training
Positive reinforcement means marking the exact moment your dog does something right and immediately rewarding it — with a treat, praise or play. The reward tells the dog, “Yes, that! Do it again.” It is kinder, more effective and builds trust, unlike punishment which creates fear and damages your relationship.
Start with the essentials
- Name recognition: say the name, reward eye contact. This is the foundation of everything.
- Sit: lure the nose up and back with a treat; as the bottom drops, mark and reward.
- Recall: call happily, reward generously every single time, and never call your dog to do something they dislike.
- Loose-leash walking: reward your dog for staying near you; stop moving when they pull so pulling never “works”.
Consistency is everything
Dogs cannot learn a rule that changes. If jumping up is sometimes cute and sometimes told off, the dog stays confused. Everyone in the household needs to use the same words and the same rules. Pick your cues, write them down, and stick to them.
Managing unwanted behaviour
Instead of punishing a behaviour you dislike, ask two questions: what is the dog getting out of it, and what would you rather they do instead? Redirect to an acceptable behaviour and reward that. For barking, chewing or digging, make sure the dog has enough exercise and mental stimulation first — most “bad behaviour” is an unmet need.
When to get help
Fear, aggression or severe separation anxiety are not stubbornness — they are distress, and they benefit from a qualified, force-free behaviourist. There is no shame in asking for help; early support prevents small problems becoming big ones.
Keep it positive
Training should be fun for both of you. End every session on a win, keep your energy upbeat, and celebrate progress. A well-trained dog is a happier, safer, more relaxed companion — and far easier for a sitter or walker to care for when you are away.